Broken tail bone from childbirth
My story is that I gave birth a little over 3 years ago. I was at 42 weeks and had no symptoms of labour.
The hospital staff gave me an injection to make things happen. I was in chronic pain during my labour and was given an epidural as hours later they were still waiting for the final centimetre of dilation. Then my baby girl was in distress and they said they had to deliver her quickly. She came out with her head and arm first. She was dislocated in the process.
When everything calmed down she was given to me to hold and the doctor congratulated us and went home. The nurses had left the room and a little while after that I suffered a massive bleed. The doctor rushed back and he had his hands inside me trying to find and stop the bleeding. I was offered a transfusion but said I would be fine. I was in a lot of pain and the nursing staff weren't sympathetic. They spoke to me in a manner that made me feel they thought I was a sook.
I found it hard to move, sit, stand, lie down. I went home and found it really hard to do my housework, return to part time work, carry my baby. I couldn't exercise and suffered a prolapse.
I did my pelvic floor exercises. I complained to my doctor as well as the physio that I had numbness in my feet, sometimes warm rushes that went down my leg. I told them I had chronic pain. The pain would shoot down my leg and I would yelp in the middle of walking and freeze and then as quickly as the shooting pain would come it would go. I shared that for a good period of time I could not straighten quickly to rise from bed to go and get ready for my other children and work. I shared how I had sharp stabbing pains quite regularly down my legs.
I even tried Bowen Therapy in my search for relief and healing....that was a crock and a waste of money. Basically I tried to convey the different layers of pain that I had...the constant drone of ache the sharp stabbing pains, the pains in my back as well as the descriptions of pain in my feet.
My nerves felt raw. I was unable to participate in my usual fit lifestyle of soccer coaching and yoga as well as fitness instructing. My pain was worn on my face and in my clenched hands at most times through the day. I felt like I was deteriorating and compressing in my lower spine area.
I was never sent for xrays or anything until I recently went to a new doctor who bulk bills. It turns out that my tail bone was broken....on the xray there is a big gap and the bottom parts are pointed inwards. I don't know how to describe it...like the bottom 2 knuckles perhaps.
I live in a country town in Australia and she is referring me to the physio again. I had no relief from physiotherapy last time and am unsure how it will help this time. I am wondering if I should be asking for a referral to a spinal specialist, or a chiropractor instead. I am 41 years old and am worried about my quality of life as I age with this problem. I am also very upset with the lack of care I had received. No one wanted to look into any of my pain and as a result I felt like there was something wrong with me not being able to handle childbirth. Silly now that I know what I have been living with and doing my best to cope with.
I really need some advice. Is 3 years later too late for any help? What should I look for in a chiropractor or should I be seek different medical help? What questions should I ask someone to know that they are really good at what they do? I am a strong minded person and I have not taken any medication for my pain as I was breast feeding and now have been learning to just live with it. Should I be taking an anti inflammatory? It is always a constant but some days can be worse that others and I am really grateful for the relief of the better days. I wake at night with pain pulsating. I can't be on my feet for long periods of time. The numbness is always there. Will pain killers help with that? Or if I take them will I do something that could exacerbate my problem say for instance think I can exercise again and push myself to far because I can't feel the boundaries of pain? Can any of this be reversed? I would be so grateful for any advice you can share with me.